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Defying the Holiday Seasons
Eric Belliveau • Dec 05, 2018

This time of year becomes a challenging time for many people. Between the crazy schedules, family and friend gatherings, work deadlines and everything else in between we often tend to put our own priorities on the back burner. With such a giving and thankful time of year it is easy to put yourself last. No matter what you celebrate it is important to remember that when our glass is empty we do not have much to give to those around us. This is a time to be full and enjoy everything around us. Here are a few tips to beat the season of feeling guilty, distracted or derailed from your usual schedule over the next few months.

Newton’s 1st Law: “An object at rest stays at rest and an object in motion stays in motion”

AKA: Keep moving! It’s science people -A body in motion stays in motion. It is so easy to make excuses for yourself or put your health to the side. But allowing yourself to get that physical and mental release is proven to keep you energized and going longer. If your schedule is always go, go, go the couch may seem like the most comforting option. But if that becomes and everyday occurrence how does that leave you feeling afterwards? Now I am not saying that taking the time to rest is bad, it may be necessary to refuel. Just be aware of how often this may occur and continue to put one foot in front of the other, literally.

Moderation

Simply put: Allow yourself to indulge and enjoy but not for the entire season. We are all human, life does not function well without a little balance. Do not punish yourself for being human! Much like the tip above, a once in a while treat is much different than a complete halt. Moderation may also mean giving up some time you spend on daily routines to spend with those loved ones or friends you do not normally get to see. Oh - and moderation doesn’t exist when it comes to hydration. Water, electrolytes, and more water!

Create a Plan

Having a plan for the day is a great way to stay on task and make sure you stay focused. I’m a huge sticky note gal, in fact I have about 3 going at one time. I’m also a self proclaimed (and appointed by many colleagues and friends) bag lady. Before each workday I pack about 3 outfits, my laptop, everything I can possibly think of into my Mary Poppins bag. That is my plan, it just works for me. Knowing I have an outfit to workout in or go to yoga in creates a schedule for me that I need to keep. But be sure to define a plan to keep the ball rolling.

Do Not Get Attached to Your Plan

As we all know days rarely go as planned. Let it happen. If not everything gets done on your list do not beat yourself up about it. Create a more positive outlook on how you can accomplish what you need to. Is there a way to make the exercise class you had to miss into a 20 minute home workout? Do you tell yourself you have to eat all the leftovers in a week just to make sure they don’t go to waste? Perhaps try freezing them and eating them slowly over the season. There is no need to generate negative energy for it will only become more of a roadblock to what needs to get done. Expect the unexpected and create an opportunity out of it.

And more importantly, technology and distractions can wait; your health and loved ones may not always be there.
Sleep

Ah, sleep. What a magnificent thing...when you actually get it. Depending on what your job is, if you have kids, how much your mind runs, and the list goes on, this may be an extremely challenging task. I know first hand this is a struggle of mine. Yet once again, science has proven its benefits (Refer to Rob’s blog on page 3 of our Blog pages). Try using tip #2 and incorporate sleep into your plan. Let’s catch those Z’s.

Identify the Problem

Is there something always taking you away from your plan or health? First identify if this is a positive or negative. Could it be the constant distraction of checking your phone too often, self expectations or stresses, other individuals? Once you narrow it down, you may be able to accomplish more than what you had planned for. I just recently read that certain studies show the average human's attention span (social media is mostly to thank) is 8 seconds. 8 SECONDS. Say whattt. However, if you take away technology and distractions it can change instantly. I have been playing around with this and continue to put my phone away when I want to accomplish a task. I noticed a completely positive result -things that used to take me up to an hour because I had to respond to a text, answer that email, etc now only takes me 20 minutes. And more importantly, technology and distractions can wait; your health and loved ones may not always be there.

All in all, while these may appear to be simple tasks they are easy to skip over. I can not tell you how many times I have heard “I really should trigger point more” (myself included). Literally, it can take 10 minutes of your day, yet it is more of a rarity for us than it is commonality. I encourage you to take five minutes out of your day to reflect on how often you have consciously performed or executed these tasks. Don’t wait until the New Year to come around. As a community let’s commit to creating the time to stay active, hold ourselves accountable, and conquer this season together!

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We were all thrown on this crazy ride together. Emotions were running high but so were patience, empathy, inclusion, and respect. Most of us could rally behind the #WeAreInThisTogether manta. We wanted to do right by each other - donate to charities, lend a hand, check-in on one another. Do our part. As the days turn to weeks and the weeks into months these dispositions decayed rapidly. I know that this Quarantine order has been going on for a long time. I know that a great number of us do not agree on the why. I know an even greater number of us are “over it”. I am painfully aware of the difference of opinions surrounding the pandemic. It is impossible to NOT be aware of this. This leads us all to frustration, anger, resentment, and the feeling that you are not being heard. Very real and very human emotions! It is okay to feel this way. I am not only writing this from the perspective of a fellow struggling human. I do find myself struggling with everything I mentioned above. Not just daily but multiple times a day. My ability to focus has been challenged by my worry. My ability to create time for myself and focus on self-care has been derailed for fear of other things becoming more pressing. I work on this every day. I am not only writing this from the perspective of one of the business owners who were never given a playbook for this. For weeks on end I thought WTF happened to the business and how would our model need to change and remain viable, how each business owner had to either weather a period in which we were completely shut down or allowed to operate under capacity restrictions, etc. The unknown of what the timeline would bring and whether we would be able to continue our dreams or make an extremely difficult decision of not continuing. This still haunts every one of us daily. I AM very much writing this as a service provider! I am writing this as an impassioned human who genuinely loves what I do for a living. I feel incredibly lucky to be able to have built a career surrounding something I get excited about every day. I am making a stand for all of us that make their living in the service industry. To the receptionist, hostess, waiter, cook, dry cleaner, teacher, technician, barista, utility worker, automobile service technician… It is truly impossible to be inclusive of everyone here.  No one human mentioned above asked for this ‘situation’ we are in. We are sure as hell trying to provide a level of normalcy, service, care, and happiness to the lives in which we choose to serve. With added restrictions, added expense decreased capacity and the fear of being fined or shut down for doing it incorrectly, everyday.
By Eric Belliveau 07 Oct, 2020
When it comes to taking meat out of your diet, some people have the idea that they will only see positive changes immediately following this choice. While those positive changes are definitely part of the deal, so is an adjustment period for your body.
By Eric Belliveau 23 Sep, 2020
We were all thrown on this crazy ride together. Emotions were running high but so were patience, empathy, inclusion, and respect. Most of us could rally behind the #WeAreInThisTogether manta. We wanted to do right by each other - donate to charities, lend a hand, check-in on one another. Do our part. As the days turn to weeks and the weeks into months these dispositions decayed rapidly. I know that this Quarantine order has been going on for a long time. I know that a great number of us do not agree on the why. I know an even greater number of us are “over it”. I am painfully aware of the difference of opinions surrounding the pandemic. It is impossible to NOT be aware of this. This leads us all to frustration, anger, resentment, and the feeling that you are not being heard. Very real and very human emotions! It is okay to feel this way. I am not only writing this from the perspective of a fellow struggling human. I do find myself struggling with everything I mentioned above. Not just daily but multiple times a day. My ability to focus has been challenged by my worry. My ability to create time for myself and focus on self-care has been derailed for fear of other things becoming more pressing. I work on this every day. I am not only writing this from the perspective of one of the business owners who were never given a playbook for this. For weeks on end I thought WTF happened to the business and how would our model need to change and remain viable, how each business owner had to either weather a period in which we were completely shut down or allowed to operate under capacity restrictions, etc. The unknown of what the timeline would bring and whether we would be able to continue our dreams or make an extremely difficult decision of not continuing. This still haunts every one of us daily. I AM very much writing this as a service provider! I am writing this as an impassioned human who genuinely loves what I do for a living. I feel incredibly lucky to be able to have built a career surrounding something I get excited about every day. I am making a stand for all of us that make their living in the service industry. To the receptionist, hostess, waiter, cook, dry cleaner, teacher, technician, barista, utility worker, automobile service technician… It is truly impossible to be inclusive of everyone here.  No one human mentioned above asked for this ‘situation’ we are in. We are sure as hell trying to provide a level of normalcy, service, care, and happiness to the lives in which we choose to serve. With added restrictions, added expense decreased capacity and the fear of being fined or shut down for doing it incorrectly, everyday.
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